“You are a magnet”.

The Universal Law of Attraction states: We attract whatever we choose to give our attention to–whether wanted or unwanted. This Law is Universal because it does not matter who you are, where you live, what your religious beliefs are, what year you were born……the Law is true for everyone equally. It is as true as the Law of Gravity.

Most of the time, we attract by “default” rather than by deliberate choice. We just sort of go through our day, focusing on problems that need to be solved or on things that did not feel good nor seem right. In so doing, we are actually creating more problems, more of what does not feel good and more of what does not seem right.

Think of yourself as a huge magnet. The kind that pulls metal to itself from afar. It doesn’t “try” to attract, it simply does attract. It is the same way for us. Whether or not we are trying to attract, we ARE doing so all the time, (except when we are asleep), and we attract the likeness of what we think about. If we are thinking about a lack of something, we are attracting more lack (scarcity). If we are thinking about something we love, we are attracting more of what we love and enjoy. I know it sounds incredibly simple, and it is.

We humans are actually very powerful attractors and we can use this wonderful, power to attract more of what we want in life-simply by paying attention to where we place our thoughts and desires.

The Art of Deliberate Attraction consists of three parts:

1. Getting very clear about what it is you are wanting

2. Raising your vibration until it matches what you want

3. Allowing what you want to come to you.

We have the opportunity to gain clarity in knowing precisely what we want, through the many “contrasts” that life offers us. The key to successfully using contrast is to observe it briefly and use it to help you decided what you do want. This takes a little practice, since our habit is to talk about, tell others about and focus on what we did not like.

It is usually part three that trips us up. We have held onto some self limiting beliefs for a very long time-so long that we no longer recognize them, yet they are still vibrating below the surface, canceling out what we are wanting.